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As the 2009-2010 Lewis academic school year comes to an end, aside from being ready to disappear from this place, it’s time to realize what we are losing after May 7 at 5 p.m. Although some can’t think of anything bad that can come from leaving Lewis, here are some that may cause you to think twice about being anxious to pack up your car and head back to the homeland.

10. Being able to easily get all your friends together in one place.

9.  Daily landscaping (not done by your manual labor or parental demand).

8.  Free laundry.

7.  Random 3 a.m. group trips to the 24-hour Walmart on Weber Road.

6.  Facebook chatting your friend next to you in the computer lab.

5.  Having staff available any time to cook your food for you.

4.  Not going grocery shopping.

3.  Your best friend’s room being less than a 10 minute walk away as opposed to his or her house being one half hour away by car.

2.  Not having to use your car as much.

1.  Meal Plans 1, 2 and 3.

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A roadmap for a great summer vacation

It is the last few weeks of the semester. Registration for next year has ended, papers are due and finals are looming. In other words, summer vacation is right around the corner.

Everyone has a different plan for their summer; some are planning to further their college career, while others want to have some fun before the next semester. Either way, there are many options this summer for students interested in furthering their education as well as options for fun, affordable activities any student can do to guarantee a good summer break.

Admittedly, summer classes at Lewis can be costly, so it may be more affordable for students to take their summer classes at a community college.

Joliet Junior College and the College of DuPage offer many non-academic classes including yoga and ballroom dancing that count for summer credits.

Summer internships are useful for any college student. Depending on your major, the company and the program, you may or may not be paid. Regardless, an internship definitely enhances a resume. A summer internship can also be a great opportunity to see what it is like to work in the real world.

Other activities include becoming a volunteer for an organization, where you can help other people. Many students obtain seasonal jobs, like a lifeguard or camp counselor, and these ensure extra spending money while also helping you enjoy the outdoors. Either way, a summer job or volunteer experience are good additions to your resume.

College students usually surpass traveling vacations because they are expensive, but affordable vacations do exist.

STA Travel (statravel.com) is the leading student travel website, as they have the best summer travel deals and have agents who work personally with students’ budgets to ensure both a practical and enjoyable vacation.

The best deals of the day are posted on the homepage of the website everyday and the destinations offered are aimed at interesting students under the age of 26. This website and others alike give students a chance to travel cheaply over summer.

Locally, there are places that are affordable or even free to visit for an enjoyable summer day. Wisconsin Dells is a local favorite, with specialty resorts and indoor and outdoor water parks.

The Dells are about four hours north of Lewis and their website offers many deals and packages for an affordable visit.

Six Flags Great America is also popular, especially for the younger crowd. Six Flags is a theme park, complete with eight large roller coasters and Hurricane Harbor, which is a water park adjacent to the theme park. Six Flags is located in Gurnee, IL, which is about an hour away from Lewis and a day ticket is only $34.99 for one person, if you catch the online special.

Starved Rock State Park is only an hour away from Lewis, in Utica, IL, and it is a great place to hike for the day for free. Starved Rock Lodge also offers hotel rooms, cabins and camp sites for an affordable overnight stay.

Without a doubt, Lewis students are looking forward to the upcoming summer break.

Kathleen Johnston is planning to work three jobs during the summer, and then is going to travel to San Diego in August.

Cassie Martinson is hoping for an internship, but otherwise just wants to enjoy her summer by going to Cubs games, concerts and by lying by the pool.

So whatever the plan for any student, everyone a chance for a fun, productive summer.

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The whimsical ‘Seussical the Musical’ rounds out the PLT season

“Seussical the Musical” is the Lewis Theater Departments’ last show of the spring semester, but it is also the last show for several of the school’s seniors.

A few of them reflected on what their time at Lewis meant to them and how they have been affected by their time in theater and in performing “Seussical.”

“Seussical” is filled with one fantastic, energetic musical number after the other.

The show opens with “Oh, the Thinks you can Think!” led by the whimsical Cat in the Hat.

The cast does an amazing job of bringing the already lively Dr. Seuss books to life. The colorful costumes and sets create the perfect atmosphere for envisioning a trip into the psychedelic Dr. Seuss world.

The play takes the viewer on a journey following the relationship between Horton, a caring and selfless elephant, and a civilization of Who’s from Whoville who live on a speck of dust that Horton caught on a flower. None of the other animals in the Jungle of Nool believe that there are actual people on the speck of dust. The storyline is centered around Horton protecting the tiny little Who world.

Michael Friar, a second year marketing major, played The Cat in the Hat. Kevin Kuchar, who is in his third year of studying theater at Lewis, played Horton the Elephant.

The leads were rounded out with Kate Sisto who played JoJo, a Who that is Mr. Mayor’s daughter.

The Who characters were wonderfully played. Anyone who has read the Dr. Seuss books know that Who’s are quirky little characters in which normal movement seems to be one of their most difficult tasks.

“The hardest part of preparing for the show was the movement. The movements remind me a little of penguins,” said Missy Young, senior theatre major who plays Mrs. Mayor.

All in all, the show is 75 minutes of great entertainment. It is filled with great musical numbers and plenty of life lessons.

Director, Keith White said, “The show may appear silly, but every one of his stories teach some great lessons. The show deals with treating everyone with respect even if they are ‘small,’ taking responsibility and accepting yourself no matter what God has given you.”

In addition to these lessons, seniors, whose last show is “Seussical,” have other things they have learned while in the theater department at Lewis.

Stephany Gran, an elementary education major has learned the value of theater as a way to teach.

Gran said she “will surely incorporate theater into the classroom. It is such an engaging way to learn.”

“With everybody’s hard work and amazing talent, I think the show turned out great,” said Young.

Young mentioned all of the opportunities she’s had in the department and everything she has learned outside of acting.

“My experiences have been amazing. I have been able to direct, act, stage manage, help build sets, lighting, sound and props.”

These skills will surely come in handy as she hopes to teach and direct theater in the future.

Both Young and Gran will be sad on their last show and discussed the difficulties of moving on.

“I do feel sad because it is my last show. At least I was able to have the opportunity to do at least one show. I wish I had more time before so I could have been a part of such a wonderful program sooner,” said Gran.

Young said she was “really sad that this is my last show at Lewis. I’ve had such an amazing time here and I don’t want it to be over. I know there will be major tears on the last show. My experiences here at the theater department have been amazing.”

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Harmonic Uprising tackles Acappellooza and an upcoming EP

Lewis’ a cappella group, Harmonic Uprising, has been very busy these past few months. They recently hosted Acappellooza here at Lewis, and they are currently in the recoding studio working on an EP.

In addition to that, the group has been practicing for their end of the year showcase coming up later this month.

Brian Schmidt, director of Harmonic Uprising, recently spoke with “The Flyer” about the group’s busy schedule and their upcoming plans for next year.

Harmonic Uprising hosted the second annual Acappellooza concert April 11 in Lewis’ Student Union.

The University of Illinois at Chicago started this event as an a cappella showcase last year. Harmonic Uprising shared the stage with the other co-founding groups, UIC Downtown Voices and UIC Lake Affects.

Each group has their own unique style of music; UIC Downtown Voices is a more contemporary a cappella group, while UIC Lake Affects is more of a vocal jazz based group.

“Fans from both schools were in attendance and witnessed a wide variety of styles of a cappella including a beat boxing piece by Lewis’ Christopher Biscardi,” said Schmidt.

Proceeds raised from this event also supported a good cause. They were donated to Merit School of Music’s Tuition Free Conservatory.

The school has music programs for kids in Chicago who cannot afford, or do not have, music programs at their own schools.

Overall the event was very successful, and for those who were unable to attend, there are photos and videos from the event on Harmonic Uprising’s website, harmonicuprising.weebly.com.

Schmidt also talked about the progress being made toward completing the group’s new EP.

“Tentatively titled ‘Inner Pulse,’ the album will be the culmination of the group’s first two years,” Schmidt said. “The EP will include several of Harmonic’s more popular renditions as well as [our rendition] of the Flyer fight song.”

The group plans to finish the album this summer and release it this coming fall.

As far as the group’s upcoming plans, they are optimistic about the next school year. “Next year, Harmonic Uprising is really looking forward to getting out and performing more frequently and also giving back,” said Schmidt. “We’re excited for our fall auditions. We’ll have quite a few seniors next year, including myself, and we’re looking for people we can teach to carry on the group’s legacy.”

The group is also planning on having a CD release party next fall to celebrate the completion of their EP. In the spring next year, Harmonic Uprising is working on creating a new event with other groups from around Illinois. It will be based around Valentine’s Day and will raise money for The American Heart Association.

This year, however, the group has only one more concert this semester. The Big Spring Sing Thing will take place April 26 in the chapel at 7:30 p.m. The event is also worth 10 Culture and Civilization points.

For more information about Harmonic Uprising, visit their previously mentioned website or check out their videos on YouTube.

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PreMadonnas prove their promising potential

Looking for some new, local music to add to your iPod? Chicago-based post rock/indie band The PreMadonnas recently released their new EP entitled “EPic,” which is worth checking out.

The band consists of Francis Basile (lead vocals), Martin Saldana (guitar/vocals), Damir Galev (guitar/synth), “Nasi” (bass/vocals) and Jeremy James Chereskin (drums/vocals).

The PreMadonnas have a unique sound all their own, but are similar enough to be compared to other bands like Silversun Pickups, The Hush Sound and Motion City Soundtrack.

All three songs on this EP definitely deserve a listen. The songs are catchy, energetic and lyrically well written.

They achieve their upbeat signature sound without becoming overly “poppy” like other generic, radio-friendly artists such as Cobra Starship and Owl City.

The EP opens up with the track, “Road of the Shunned.” The synthesizer opening is reminiscent of The Killer’s and Cobra Starship’s signature sound, and Basile’s lead vocals blend well with the rest of the band, especially in the chorus. The track also features a standout guitar solo that leads into a bridge, which seamlessly goes right back into the song’s soaring chorus.

“Better Than Nothing” features a more energetic, pop/rock sound and features a cool bass part, as the band sings in the chorus “In the company of losers, I am making my own luck/ Better than nothing […] when you choose luck.”

“Choosing Life,” the last track in the EP, opens with a soft, acoustic lead that goes into the band’s growing sound. Despite the up-tempo beat, the song’s lyrics deals with a person living a dismal life, but looking for a brighter outlook saying, “I want to fly away from my mind […] to a world that never cries/ Am I ever going to stop the dreaming?”

With such a strong EP release, the band is headed in the right direction toward gaining recognition in the Chicago music scene. The group’s rock/pop styling and their well versed lyrics on this EP are a good indication of promising things to come in the future for this local group.

For more information about the band or to check out their music, visit their website: thepremadonnas.com and myspace.com/beforemadonnas.

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Art Cube Studios provides art sanctuary

A simple drive into downtown Plainfield can now bring locals into a world of art education and culture unlike any other.

Art Cube Studios, at 24044 West Main Street in Plainfield, held its grand opening April 18. The studio occupies the historic Greek revival Flanders House, which backs into the scenic Des Plaines River. Owner Amanda Chakravarty explained that opening the studio had always been a dream of hers since she was in high school.

Chakravarty, who grew up in Lemont, had spent the last couple of years out west teaching art in a middle school in California, after getting her Bachelor of Fine Arts degree in art and teaching certificate at Arizona State University.

Chakravarty explained that Art Cube Studios has three main components. The studio offers adult classes ranging from furniture reclaiming to mosaics and sculpture, as well as children’s classes in elementary, middle school and high school levels.

Chakravarty explained that each class has a ratio maximum of eight students per teacher and that, “All the teachers that our teaching our unit to students [kindergarten to high school seniors] are certified Illinois credentials arts endorsed teachers. All of our lessons in the unit are Illinois standards based so the kids are learning what they would learn in school if they were to take an art class.”

Art Cube Studios also opens their doors to local artists looking for studio space to do their independent projects in, as well as a storefront for artists to sell their artwork.

“I’m inundated with artists, which is great, we’ve been getting a good response but unfortunately, the [storefront] is small so I have to be very picky,” said Chakravarty. “We just find anything that’s unique, one of a kind and high quality. We hire people who are educated and skilled and have experience being local professional artists themselves to teach our classes.”

With its three main components of classes, studio space and a storefront, Chakravarty hopes that all three will provide a sanctuary-type place as a whole for artists and locals to become more actively creative.

“Our mission is to exist as a whole environment for the arts. It’s for the community around us to promote knowledge and cultural awareness through the arts and enjoying life through the creative process,” said Chakravarty.

Though the arts will always provide a creative outlet for adults and students, it isn’t immune to the struggling economy. In many schools across the nation, art programs are almost always the first to be cut out of the budget. But despite this, Chakravarty explained that art as a whole is actually important for a child’s learning and developmental skills.

“We have to fight to keep the arts alive and this is a really risky thing for me to be doing, opening an arts facility in the middle of a really bad economic time, but I believe that it is crucial for kids to be enrolled in some kind of creative process,” said Chakravarty. “It keeps their interest, it helps them problem solve and it helps their learning retention across the board.”

Though Art Cube Studios is just in its beginning stages, Chakravarty has big plans for it in the future. In addition to its educational background, Chakravarty explained that she would like to create allies with local arts studios and venues in the area to further promote the arts.

In major cities, Chakravarty explained that art nights exist, where art enthusiasts can go gallery hopping, which she hopes to eventually start here to bring a world of culture to a small town setting.

“We don’t really have that here because we’re a small community, but we could still create an art night for the locals not to have to travel downtown to do something cultural,” she said.

And although its main focus right now is on visual arts, Chakravarty hopes that in five years Art Cube Studios will expand to music, creative writing and the performance arts as well.

“It would be nice to keep it moving in the direction it’s moving where we get the word of mouth,” she said.

“My main goal is that this [becomes] a sanctuary for people to come and enjoy their life through a creative process. Whether that means that they want to come here and sit in our break room and creatively write in a recliner – just come here and let this be your sanctuary.”

For more information visit
artcubestudios.com.

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The Flyer’s picks for this summer’s flicks

Every summer there are those movies that everyone is looking forward to. This summer is no different with an assortment of movies that can be defined as summer blockbusters.

From an old Disney movie making its triumphant return, a TV series being reborn on the big screen or, of course, some familiar vampires making yet another appearance, this summer is chocked full of movies that viewers are dying to see and are for sure going to be making a lot of buzz in the coming months.

Here are the top five movies (in no particular order) to look out for over the summer:

1. “Toy Story 3”

The old gang of toys is back and this time they are adding even more friends to the mix.

The beloved franchise of so many now high school and college students is adding characters to their series and marketing this movie very differently than most.

It’s been ten years since “Toy Story 2” hit theatres in 1999, and since then fans have been pleading for Disney to release another version. Disney finally answered those pleas and will be returning the voices of Tom Hanks and Tim Allen who continue their roles as the voices of the series two most prominent characters, Woody and Buzz.

The movie will be a part of the current 3-D craze that is sweeping the nation and will be released June 18 for your viewing pleasure.

2. “Iron Man 2”

What kind of contraptions will Tony Stark be cooking up this time around in the sequel to the popular 2008 film, “Iron Man?” Iron Man, based on the Marvel comics, was a huge surprise hit in 2008, entertaining audiences all over the world.

Robert Downey Jr. will reprise his role as Tony Stark, inventor of some really crazy gizmos and hero all rolled into one character. This time around he’ll be dealing with his rival villain, Whiplash, played by Mickey Rourke, as the government is trying to take his inventions and ideas including his very own iron man suit.

Joining the cast is actress, Scarlett Johansson, who will be playing the Black Widow. Its star studded lineup should have people running for midnight releases and then some. This action movie at the core, sprinkled in with tiny bits of Tony Stark comedy, will be entertaining audiences May 7. So open up your summer with a little Iron Man, and hopefully it will start your summer off on the right side.

3. “The A-Team”

Another action movie to prepare yourself for this summer is the new version of the popular 80s show, “The A-Team.”

“The A-Team” last aired in 1987 after a five-year run on television. The movie depicts the show’s four very different characters fighting to clear their names about some event they were framed for.

The movie appears to have tons of action and looks like one wild ride from start to finish. The four main characters, Colonel John “Hannibal” Smith (Liam Neeson), Lieutenant Templeton “Faceman” Peck (Bradley Cooper), Captain “Howling Mad” Murdock (Sharlto Copley) and Sergeant Bosco “ B.A” Baracus (Quinton Jackson) field The-A Team this time around.

The trailer has already been shown, and it is already creating a stir for its intense action-packed scenes. It is sure to be a popular movie this summer when it’s released June 11.

4. “Shrek Forever After: The Final Chapter”

The final installment of the Shrek series, “Shrek Forever After,” will have this Ogre saying goodbye to audiences for good.

The movie, which will also be presented in 3-D, appears to have a different look than the earlier versions of “Shrek” and will have Shrek and his gang of sidekicks running around all over the place once again.

This time around, the movie follows Shrek and his problems with being a domesticated ogre. A wish he makes changes everything, which of course he must now fix in order to have everything he loves back. Mike Meyers and Cameron Diaz will reprise their roles as Shrek and Fiona, respectively.

Eddie Murphy and Antonio Banderas will be once again lending their voices to Donkey and the always adorable (and apparently chubby now) Puss in Boots. The movie will be released on May 21.

5. “The Twilight Saga: Eclipse”

For the last movie of our five movies to look out for this summer, we say hello to our vampire friends once again.

“Eclipse” will be about an old rival, and apparently not friendly vampire, Victoria (Bryce Dallas Howard), who is back in the picture and causing some major problems in Forks, Washington. The Cullens, along with their continuing relationship between two of its three stars Edward Cullen (Robert Pattinson) and Bella Swan (Kristen Stewart), will have to fight to survive whatever Victoria is up to.

The third star, and teen heartthrob Jacob Black (Taylor Lautner), will prove to be a major part once again with his wolf abilities in not only the battle, but in the love triangle that’s brewing as well.

The movie is set to be released June 30.

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Roll out the red carpet for Charlie

With final exams just around the corner, and as the school year comes to a close, it’s only fitting to look back at the school year that was. With only about two weeks left, Student Governing Board plans to do this in true form as they celebrate the first ever Charlie Awards.

Formerly called the Student Governing Board Awards Ceremony, the Charlie Awards will be held Thursday, April 28 in the University Dining Room at 7:30 p.m. With 11 categories in total, the Charlie Awards are aimed at celebrating the efforts of various student organizations in the past year for bringing the Lewis community together.

Kristin Schumacher, director of student development and leadership, explained that the awards for this year were given a facelift in hopes of making the awards more personal to Lewis students, but more open to the entire Lewis community.

“I think in the past, the voting and the way that students were nominated and the way that the voting happened, was kind of restricted to just the students organizations where, really, it should be something that the whole campus should be voting on,” said Schumacher.

In fact, the entire Lewis community was encouraged to nominate an organization or a specific event held on campus on the Student Governing Board’s website. The nominees were divided into the 11 different categories which include “Best Organization in a Social Category,” “Best New Student Organization,” the Spirit Awards (which focus on specific events) and the “Mission Star” award which celebrates the “Student Organization of the Year.”

Ultimately, according to Schumacher, criteria is based on the five areas of responsibility that each student led organization is required to meet each year.

“Every year we ask our student organizations to fulfill five prongs of responsibility each semester. So in order to get any sort of University funding, [the organizations] have to do a community service event, a social event, an educational event […] a lot of work goes into that,” said Schumacher.

To make the event even more special, Schumacher explained that there will be a red carpet walk outside of the venue. Each winning organization in the 11 categories will receive a plaque recognizing their efforts and that Lewis University Television Network will tape the event.

“Everyone is so excited about it,” said Schumacher. “There’s going to be commentary, presenters and award girls, and I think they’re just really, for the most part, having fun with it and I know it’s going to be packed.”

And although the voting and nomination process is over, Schumacher explained that recognizing the students’ efforts as a whole during the Charlie Awards would be the highlight of the night.

“They’re able to take their ideas and concepts to completion and manage their homework and jobs and their student organization’s responsibility all [at once]. I think when people are trying to balance those kinds of things, they need to be recognized for the efforts that they put into it,” said Schumacher. “So this is our small way of saying [they’re] doing a great job and are adding to the vitality of life here on campus.”

Here’s a brief rundown of student organizations to be recognized at the first ever Charlie’s:

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Digging the roots to Lee’s family tree

History professor, Dr. Mark Schultz, has a specialized focus on African-American and southern history.

Schultz grew up in Georgia and has been working on research on “the day-to-day experience of rural, black and white people, in Jim Crow Georgia” for 25 years.

Through this, he’s written a book about the “separate but equal” era in the south titled, “The Rural Face of White Supremacy: Beyond Jim Crow.”

Little did Schultz know that his academic research on the complex, yet rich, history of the south would land him a guest spot on NBC’s genealogy documentary show, Who Do You Think You Are?

The new series is an adaptation of the British Broadcasting Corporation’s (BBC) show of the same name. In each episode, different celebrities are featured in hopes of trying to learn more about their ancestry, ultimately filling in their family tree.

The celebrity goes on a journey throughout the nation, meeting with local historians, archivists and genealogists to help the celebrity in trying to trace their family’s name throughout the past.

In its first season so far, actresses Sarah Jessica Parker, Lisa Kudrow and football player, Emmitt Smith, have been featured amongst others.

Though genealogy isn’t necessarily Schultz’s niche, he calls it a methodology and a tool as a means to get a broader scope of the past.

“I found out early on that I had to do a lot of oral interviews; a lot of tape recording. Sometimes that involves trying to do a lot of research on specific families to get a sense of what their story is,” said Schultz. “But, it’s not simply to understand their stories [but] to get this bigger story.”

It was his work on African-American history and the research he’s done at the Georgia State Archives in Morrow, GA, that caught the ears of producers at NBC.

Schultz’s colleagues at the state archives suggested him as a person NBC would want to feature as a historian on the show.

“[NBC] had a set of celebrities that they were going to do research on and one of them had ancestors from middle Georgia,” said Schultz.

Little did he know until the day he was going to film his segment that famed director, Spike Lee, would be the celebrity he’d help try to get a better sense of his ancestry.

One of the show’s primary sponsors is Ancestry.com, and through the site’s help, and the census records and census manuscripts that Schultz analyzed, he was able to help Lee interpret what those documents could mean.

“They gave me those documents, and it showed names and where they lived and whether they could read [which] tells us something about their education level, and members of family he didn’t know about,” said Schultz.

He explained that such work to obtain records and documents used to be extensive, but with a site like Ancestry.com, it’s gotten easier.

Schultz explained that the interviews he has conducted with African-Americans in the south, and getting to know what day-to-day life was like, helped him interpret the census documents and records.

“I know about what life was like for ordinary, black people coming up in Georgia in the Jim Crow era,” he said. “When I looked through the documents I could read that to get a sense of where they stood in society and then [I] start making guesses based on what people have told me.”

In essence, Schultz explained that showing the documents to Lee was more like a “discussion based class,” rather than him sharing the facts explicitly.

“I’d show him the documents, and my job was to get him to interpret them himself, and as he’d ask questions I’d give suggestions,” said Schultz. “It was like a teaching situation, and so it was more conversational than simply lecture.”

It is evident how invested Schultz is on his research of African-American history in the Jim Crow era through the 25 years of work he has devoted to it. But he explains that the curiosity behind the research simply came from his experience growing up in the region.

“I came into the world during the Civil Rights movement. By the time I knew anything, that Jim Crow world was in the rearview mirror and books didn’t talk about it a whole lot,” he said. “I was just so curious [about] what were my friends’ parents’ experiences like.”

Schultz essentially wanted to understand how they came to be, “a really warm, really loving, forgiving” people, despite the thick racial tension during that time.

“That’s what really got my curiosity up, to try to understand their story. How they passed through this still being human,” said Schultz. “The story’s not in books, I really don’t think, and so it became something I had to research.”

Overall, Schultz explains the importance for people to truly know their roots, in that it gives an individual a better understanding of “family dynamics and people’s limitations as well as their strengths.”

And in terms of people looking to find out more about their rich ancestry on their own, Schultz explained that the best place to start is at home.

“I tell everybody who I talk to about history to get the oldest people in your family on tape, like your grandparents, as soon as you can. There’s whole traditions that disappear with them that you just can’t get back again,” he said. “There’s little bits and pieces that we can glean from our past in physical record, but there’s nothing as rich as the oral stories.”

Make sure to catch Schultz in an upcoming episode of Who Do You Think You Are, airing Friday nights at 7 p.m. on NBC.

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Tough on the wallet, tough on the love

Tough on the wallet, tough on the love

Given today’s precarious and unreliable economy, there are other things that are being cut besides government funded programs and federal spending.

Surprisingly, people have began cutting their spouses and significant others as a way to save money and decrease a deficit of their own. According to Slate.com, men have suffered a whopping 82 percent of the nation’s unfortunate job loss epidemic, and statistics show that 25 percent of women out-earned their significant other in 2009. If love didn’t cost a thing before, it’s costing a lot more these days.

Traditional gender role stereotypes are being broken down as the age old rules for the dating game are beginning to change, given that women are now more likely to make more money than their significant other. It used to be expected for a man to provide and care for a woman. However, in current times, dinner bills are split between both individuals, and in some cases, women are footing the entire bill for outings and additional expenses.

Today, 83 percent of women report being stressed about money along with 78 percent of men who reported being stressed about money since it is more common for women to be fully supporting men nowadays.

According to a poll done by Cosmopolitan magazine, 59 percent of women would hesitate dating a guy because of his financial status, while 62 percent say they would keep a man’s “lackluster job status” a secret, and 72 percent of women would downplay their accomplishments if their man was underemployed or unemployed.

Given this information, it is safe to say it would not be uncommon for single women to lower their standards and qualifications when it comes to finding a mate.

Unmarried, committed relationships have taken many blows. Financially strapped relationships can create a domino effect leading to many other problems such as resentment, cheating and stress.

Couples have resulted to moving into their spouse’s parent’s house as a way to save money or because they simply cannot afford to live together.

Couples are also going out less to save money unless the event itself is of low cost. With very little money to spare, even a simple movie outing or dinner can hurt your wallets.

Rising gas prices are also contributing to couples spending less time together outside of their homes which can cause both individuals to become restless.

As budgeting and saving in a relationship becomes important now more than ever, if you are involved with someone who is high maintenance and materialistic, it’s either time to padlock their credit cards and agree on a financial plan, or call it quits.

Financial responsibility shared among a couple increases when they decide to live together. Living or sharing finances with someone who is listless with money can cause damage to your financial future as well as the relationship itself.

That, in addition to money playing a key role in relationships, and credit scores are increasingly becoming a make or break topic when it comes to relationships as well.

In the past, a person’s credit score was not even thought of when embarking upon the road to happily-ever-after.

However in response to the unemployment rate and layoffs, credit scores have plummeted because people are unable to pay their bills on time, or at all. Since a credit score largely affects your life, it is important that scores among both individuals are shared with one another.

If your partner’s credit score is not in good standing, it affects whether the two of you can purchase a house, obtain loans, interest rates you pay on various bills and credit cards, the payment of a car and ultimately the amount of rent you pay each month. Surely you would not want to be with someone who increases any of those factors and you would not want to be punished for your partner’s past financial mistakes.

Many marriages have taken devastating hits as well. Unexpected layoffs and financial difficulty has become the grounds for many divorces, as money, which is a crucial and critical issue in any marriage, becomes a strain and can be followed by depression.

With such an unhappy environment, it is no wonder why one would want to leave. However without money as a support system to fall back on, many couples leave a marriage with less than they had to begin with.

When divorced or legally separated, many cannot afford to live separately and must still remain residing in the sole residence. This can create tension in the house especially if the legal process is ugly.

Following a divorce can get just as messy. As the person who receives majority of the income may leave, the other person is stuck with a mortgage and financial expenses that they cannot afford which can result in foreclosure.

Leasing an apartment can be a difficult for a family to make, in addition to the split. Assets, such as investments and retirement accounts, which the couple may have accumulated together during the duration of the marriage, could not be as valuable because of the timing.

As a result of this many couples report feeling poorer than they were before the marriage.  Parents are not the only ones who suffer the pains of having less money to spare. Child support payments are being decreased to adjust to the financial situation of the parent. In addition to this, health insurance is becoming a problem as the family separates, and premiums increase and become too high for one parent to pay alone.

Given these facts, it is safe to say the cost with or without love is too much to bear.

Think twice before attaching your wallet to your heart and giving both away.

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